Hey much respect to all you "true" taiji MAs on this site. Okay, quick question I know yall can help me with. I've got all that chi stuff going on.... trying to learn fa jing and kong jing. I borrow power and follow and understand and listen, I can stick and move with my partner liek a mirror (usually my younger brother) and I do prebirth breathing and condensing (I'm not COMPLETLEY ignorant, anyway...) all of that good stuff. I'm trying to really develop that thing where we're having a push hands contest and i kind of "loose up and tense up" and send my lil bro way off balance. any pointers on developing this? it seems to be fa jing because i'm not like, shoving him, just "using force", if you can dig that. i'm talking focus tips, or maybe sensations I should be more alert to? should i be drawing in, then pushing out (chi, not li, you know)? anything helps. not too many taiji masters here in good ol' hampton roads.