Hi, I've been doing Jiu Jitsu (Goshin Ju Jitsu based on Tenjin Shinyo Ryu) from summer 2010 to early 2011 (roughly 4 months) and around 6-8 months in 2011. Still doing it now. Started JUDO in April 2011 until May and restarted in September. I know how to throw but I don't know how to throw IN RANDORI!!! Either i'm so worried about getting slammed hard that I don't commit or if I DO commit, I either kick their leg trying/my arms when I do De Ashi Barai or O Uchi Gari don't push/pull properly. Even against smaller/weaker opponents I don't get thrown but I don't know how to throw them! The most annoying thing is when they keep their arms locked out/pushing me but even if I grab them/pull them in, my feet are miles away!! If I step in I either get thrown or they're too quick and step back!!! This was my first match against someone from another club-i'm in the blue pants. It was a draw as he couldn't hold me down for the 25 seconds and unfortunately as he was new I couldn't do any shime or kansetsu waza! [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4OcwcmkQLM&feature=player_detailpage"]Chris Randoori with Solent part 2 - YouTube[/ame] Same applies for wrestling classes-I can shoot in but I can't take them down!