Why do you train?

Discussion in 'General Martial Arts Discussion' started by Grass hopper, Feb 19, 2014.

  1. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    You know, this actually isn't just a joke answer. The K1 classes here have a lot of fit girls in them and there's been a few people I know who've taken them up just for that.

    Also am I the only one who's had ma change what they see as attractive? A few years ago I would've said the usual "woman in a bikini" or whatever is hot. Still true, but now a woman in a gi or in mma shorts and a rashguard is one of the hottest things I see. Its a bit of a weird change :p
     
  2. Grass hopper

    Grass hopper Valued Member

    i kinda know how you feel, i'm just not attracted at all to guys without some fight in them.

    they don't necessarily have to be good fighters, just someone with some real fire inside.
     
  3. Fish Of Doom

    Fish Of Doom Will : Mind : Motion Supporter

    yes.
     
  4. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    Yeah for sure.

    I forgot that in my other reply for why I train: I've had muggle friends who've never trained and I have very good friendships with them. That said, the friendhips I have from the gym are a lot better. There's something about fighting, even in controlled circumstances, that reveals a lot about people. The primal nature of it, the trust you have to have with training partners, the mutual respect or whatever else it is. You "see" something in other people when you've trained and sparred hard with them and K've never got that vibe off a friend from outside training.
     
  5. Grass hopper

    Grass hopper Valued Member

    exactly, when i fight someone i almost instantly get a level of respect for them. theres just something about it that appeals to the caveman inside.
     
  6. PointyShinyBurn

    PointyShinyBurn Valued Member

    I like hurting people.
     
  7. Grass hopper

    Grass hopper Valued Member

    :wow:
     
  8. Van Zandt

    Van Zandt Mr. High Kick

    Parents put me into TKD classes because I was a hyperactive four-year old who wouldn't stop kicking people after sneakily watching them viewing a pirated copy of "Bloodsport" on VHS. They believed training would wear me out. Instead it made me fitter and much better at kicking their shins :D

    I wanted to be the best so winning in competitions was my primary motivation for a long time. But recently I felt burnt out and retired. Now I train for fun and I'm happier than I have been since... ever. I'm seeing better results now than I did at the height of my competition career. I do this full time so paying the bills is another reason why I train lol.
     
  9. Pretty In Pink

    Pretty In Pink Moved on MAP 2017 Gold Award

    Man, my answer is so long and I'm too tired from training tonight D;
     
  10. Mitch

    Mitch Lord Mitch of MAP Admin

    I train because I'm not naturally gifted and find it very difficult.

    Why would you bother if it was easy?

    Mitch
     
  11. aikiMac

    aikiMac aikido + boxing = very good Moderator Supporter

    ^^ What he said! ^^

    The only athletic thing that I'm innately good at is swimming. Walking, running, throwing, catching, hitting, kicking, turning -- everything is awkward for me. That really is why I get on the mat week after week, year after year. :)
     
  12. Heraclius

    Heraclius BASILEVS Supporter

    I got interested in MA for the technical aspects. All of the different ways you can use your body to hurt other people! :p So when I needed something to get me out of the house and active, MA is what I went for. I think it's sort of a D&D mentality, you know? I read about all of these awesome feats and skills and spells and I think, "I want to be able to do that" :p. Of course it's a lot harder in real life. That bit is fun too, though.
     
  13. Mugen Zero

    Mugen Zero Infinite zero

    I trained to protect my family, but sadly I failed at that when i was 11 when i was black belt :crying: , now i just train for my fitness, self defense, and for fun XD, and of vourse most importantly to protect those i care about :)
     
  14. Dan93

    Dan93 Valued Member

    I have a naturally firery temperment and as a 14 year old and always getting into trouble, my parents noticed I had an interest in martial arts and signed me up at the local Shotokan Dojo (was the nearest). Never looked back....

    Today I am still as addicted to training as I was when I first started, more so even althrough I now have to balance training with a busy work and family life... Misses does moan about my training times and I do normally end up sleeping on the sofa on a Wednesday after late training to avoid waking her (sneaking around like I am walking on nightingale flooring :) )better than the aftermath of an angry misses and a screaming child.

    Primary reason will always be functional ability, then fitness and then art for arts sake.

    Cheers

    Dan93
     
  15. LemonSloth

    LemonSloth Laugh and grow fat!

    That's a point I'd overlooked actually. My wife and family laughed at me the first time I mentioned that I trust people who are willing to train honestly and who I've trained with more than anybody else. To them, the idea that I'd trust someone willing to punch and kick me more than someone I'd spent months just talking to seemed an odd idea.

    My response was that how you train very much indicates the kind of person you are and its' not something you can disguise very well. To this day, the only people that have never upset me or got on my nerves are people who I've trained with that are willing to put an honest effort in, regardless of talent or physique.

    As for redefining what I think of as attractive, I hadn't really thought about it. I mean yeah, I used to get turned off by guys 'n gals that would lift weights or go to the gym or do any kind of consistent exercise before I started doing MA. I also used to be terrified of anyone that did any MA who held this "deadly fighter" aura around them.

    Now the only gym types that turn me off are the ones who stand there getting their gf's/bf's to kiss their biceps, flexing in the mirror over and over yelling "yeah, I'm sexy!" while tossing their weights around the room. I'm more turned off now by peeps with fake tans/breast enlarging surgery, fake hair, fake nails, make up...pretty much all that standard fakery really. On the other hand, someone who's willing to spar or stand by what they claim to believe in? Massive plus point for me. Someone that currently trains in a combat sport or MA or physical discipline? Also a massive plus point.

    You might have to expand on this for me. I love D&D, but the times I've played it, its' been entirely with people who basically want to suit up, be the noble paragon/cleric/shady thief in the thick of it stabbing everyone, saving the day, getting the girl and eating the pet turtle.
     
    Last edited: Feb 20, 2014
  16. Heraclius

    Heraclius BASILEVS Supporter

    Well, I personally spent more time reading the books than actually playing... I'm the kind of person who'd become a wizard because I loved to hoard spells. The thing I found so attractive about it was that there was so much content: all of the different classes; different races/monsters; even different worlds if you got to a high enough level. That's the sort of stuff I like in theory, at least. In practice I make a better Fighter; just give me a sword and point me at the orcs :D.

    I treat my MA the same; all of the different techniques and strategies really interest me, but when I'm learning I'd rather just get down the basics properly.
     
  17. Rhythmkiller

    Rhythmkiller Animo Non Astutia

    My dad was a TKD practitioner when he was a young man and claimed it the best of the arts - He also did Shotokan. He tried to get me into Shoto when i was about 5 but i had no interest so gave up.

    Years later i decided to try a TKD class and was physically shattered. I couldn't keep up with the class. I wasn't going to go back. The sharp intake of breath i got was that i was severely unfit. Against my will i went back and struggled through class after class. Eventually getting fitter and much, much faster. My instructor has asked me to represent my local town in competition and i am now training to compete. Only local competition but i guess that's why i train now. Funny how things change.

    Baza
     
  18. Smitfire

    Smitfire Cactus Schlong

    My reason/s for training has changed over the years.

    I started because I didn't know how to fight and was scared of someone starting one and getting involved in a SD situation.
    Then I discovered I could kick people in the bonce fairly well and so started competing in TKD.
    I didn't know enough in those days to realise I'd picked completely the wrong sort of training to learn SD and got enamoured with head kicking instead.
    That lasted a few years.

    Then Geoff Thompson and the UFC gained momentum and I realised that even though I was now a TKD BB I still couldn't fight beyond a very strict ruleset.
    So I stopped TKD and started Progressive Hapkido in order to learn some grappling, locking, trapping weapons etc.

    My next few years of training then followed the idea of being functional at all ranges and formats.
    If someone wanted to box I wanted good enough hands to box.
    If someone wanted to grapple, stick fight, kick fight or whatever I wanted to have some idea of what to do. Not a world beater but not someone that would say "I can't do X".

    So in that time I did Thai, BJJ, rapid arnis and MMA.

    That desire to be functional in as many formats and ranges as possible is still an undercurrent really.

    As I age my reason to train has morphed again into just being functional per se. A moving human being. Trying to be mobile and fit so my kids have a dad at 50 that can still roll about with them, teach them to cartwheel in the garden and climb trees.
     
  19. Zinowor

    Zinowor Moved on

    I train to become stronger (mostly mentally) and because I reeeeaaaally love sparring. The notion of learning to understand the capabilities of the human body also greatly intrigues me.

    Definitely though, without the sparring bit I wouldn't be doing it. For me, it's like the whole point of doing martial arts.
     
  20. Zinowor

    Zinowor Moved on

    It's actually the other way around for me. It only takes me from a few to hours to a few days of practice (depending on the sport) and I'll give the long-time practitioner serious difficulty.

    It was only with MA where this wasn't the case, which is why MA were the only sport activity I became truly attached to.
     

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