Hey, I need some help on this one.. I'm taking this girl out next wednesday night.. We've allready dated last week, great girl, great night.. I took her to the movies, had diner with her, some drinks in a bar.. all went well. Now, do you have any suggestions for some fun thing to do? not the standard movie-, dinner-, sex-date.. The zoo is closed, that was my best guess..
The possibilities are endless, but since this is an MA forum, may I suggest that you invite her to come to one of your classes? Depending on what she's like, she might think that would be fun!
Sounds promising. Perhaps you could make some suggestions? 1. Non-standard movie: 2. Non-standard dinner: 3. Non-standard sex:
Why not just start with the sex and save on the dinner and movie, send out for Indian and get the wine ready in the fridge.
Well . . . First I would ask the question . . . Since you know her . . .. What is she into? Pick something based on that. Then it will look like you were paying attention (at some point). Personally, if I'm trying to get in with a girl, I cook dinner instead of taking them out. I've found my success rate to be higher there. Then again I'm a pretty good cook. If you can cook, either pick something good that you've made before, or do a rehearsal to make sure you've got it down.
i'll try and be helpful you could take her bowling (make sure you ask her if she would like to first tho) you could do the dinner then go for a walk somewhere nice in the park or if its in the day you could make a picnic for the park. (ooh my bfs would have never done that, thats really nice)
Yohan is also right about cooking for a girl, My first date with my missus I cooked for her with veggies I had grown on my allotment, we've been together now over 10 years.
I used to have a flatmate who would always invite girls over for dinner that he'd cooked. They'd always be very impressed and tell him what a fantastic cook he was and what a great time they'd had, then leave. He built up a huge catalogue of "girl-friends" that way. Just a cautionary tale. If the weather stays nice, a picnic would be a good one. The beach? A play? A gig/concert?
@ Johnno.. no, she's not really into boxing.. definately a no-no.. @ Yohan.. Cooking? me? I'm 19 years old, and I live with my parents.. guess not.. just an messy kitchen and a crying girl.. @ cavallin.. well.. bowling could be fun.. I take that one into consideration.. Well.. I talked about with her.. she wants me to surprise her.. I was thinking about mini golf, or squash, or the zoo..
He didn't have the right angle. Hey, it worked for me when I was 19 and lived with my parents . . . several times in fact. You didn't answer my other question though. What's she in to?
squash & picnic look like good idea's if she likes the sport you do, invite her to come watch when you have a competition do something you are good at so you can impress her
Do you know what kind of music she likes? If there are any gigs or club nights that fit, think about taking her there. I've always found live music works very well for dates
