hello! i have a problem. my BF needs somewhere to live... option 1: we could move in together problem: we only got back together recently so i'm not quite ready to move in together just yet, i was hoping maybe in 9 months or so... if i go aheady with it: it's not the end of the world, we might split up and just move back out, or it could work out, or i'd be moving in for the wrong reasons and then settle in to something im not 100% sure with. option 2: he move in with his friend 50 miles away, transfers over his job, and quits TKD and takes up kickboxing, he won't be able to tranfer to where i live for another 2 years probably (so he says) the problem with that is that we would only see each other at weekends!! which sucks, plus i really dont want him to quite tkd, because we wont compete together anymore and it will suck. plus his mates aren't the best influence on him. ( i have absolutely no issues with him cheating though, they are other issues) so basically i don;t knwo what to do. he won't live on his own, because he'l hardly be spending time in the place because at the moment he goes between his house, my house and his mum's house (no he cant go with his mum) and he won't share with strangers. i dont know what to do, and i wondered if anyone has a super mega perfect solution...?