Dude, if your old enough to invade another country, and potentially kill humans for your government, then your old enough to be talked to like an adult. It's good that you've matured, but getting upset that people don't tolerate nonsense on here is rediculous. Re identity politics, really it's a way of seeing one facet of how the different classes are treated, it's a very valid one, but not the only way, or you could argue even the best one. If people are poor enough to get government assistance, them it's because there poor, not because of their racial background. If you wernt that poor, then being jealous of someone who is poor, seems a bit daft. Expecting someone to volunteer there time to "give back" because they're an immigrant, is also problematic. There's obviously a lot of nuonce in your experiences that we've obviously all missed. But tolerating intolerance isn't a good plan systemically, even if it worked well for you individually.