This is a tough one, but would you defend yourself with force against women (and kids)?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hp6O0Bvhbv8 If I were attacked in this manner, I'd be tempted to just kick the shin (I'm a boxer). Punching an untrained person in the face/head/jaw is very dangerous. But the problem is, these days, certain class of women/kids think they have the legal right to beat single adult guy up! In some cases, they need to be taught a lesson! Obviously, the bouncer/doorman didn't hit her hard otherwise she would've been knocked out cold. she didn't have a clue what she was doing. I'm on the side of the doorman on this one. there's no way he should be charged!