gazzthewannabe
22-Oct-2005, 11:19 PM
hey im not sure what im asking or making a point off here but i need to talk about it, and while im at it i should hopefully get some pro advice tonight from you guys :)
tonight i went out to a party at my local rugby club, i didn't know anyone but a girl whos a friend of my gf...we soon started having a laugh a few pints and i made friends with some older people, when i was talking to a huge chap he was bragging about how mcuh he could bench press, i challenge his wieght.
him = 105kg
me = 120kg
they started taking the mick for the rest of the night, not believing me and soon making a bet...one guy took it to far...so wit a fair conciounce i challenged him to a wrestle...after obviousely declaring my strength was better then his i lifted him up and placed him gently on the floor making him muddy...i (being the gentle man i am) let go of him and let him get up he started getting all serouse and grabbed me by the throat and starting pushing me against a nearby wall...it wasn't lifethreatening but it was intimedating, i just put my hands to the side of me saying "hey hey calm down" letting him pin me against the way (hes bigger and older then me, more likely to have more experience) he soon lets go and i get congradulated by the "huge chap" that i talked to earlier for having some balls but one of his mates, known as kurt soon comes along after seeing me throwing my wieght around and one guys says "watch out he can bench press 120kg" and he replies with "ill kick you ass boy" with some wierd accent...i knowing him and his reputation reply with "you honestly could mate" he starts pushing me and then starts feeling my chest (im slimish but i still have slight boobs being at 13 1/2 stone) and making the noises of having sexual intercourse with me) i not liking it but not having the guts just laugh until ive had enough and just say back off as he does before threatening and hitting me on both my shoulders and then asking why i dont play rugby which i reply with i do..he says he hasn't seen me and i say the reason why (your find out about it at the end of this paragraph) in the end i was embarressed and made a fool of in front of my gfs best friend but i aslo stuck up for myself against big rugby playes and showed i can take them down but no one will see it that way, to everyone else i wussied out...i feel bad, i feel i cant stick up for myself properly and i dont have the psychological ability to start a fight with them...but in the end, i knew i did the best i could from a martial artists point of view...i spose what im asking is for what i could of done better or if i did do anything right at all and what can i do to help with psycholical defense...i would expect experience to be the best way but plz help...thanks in advance
gazz
tonight i went out to a party at my local rugby club, i didn't know anyone but a girl whos a friend of my gf...we soon started having a laugh a few pints and i made friends with some older people, when i was talking to a huge chap he was bragging about how mcuh he could bench press, i challenge his wieght.
him = 105kg
me = 120kg
they started taking the mick for the rest of the night, not believing me and soon making a bet...one guy took it to far...so wit a fair conciounce i challenged him to a wrestle...after obviousely declaring my strength was better then his i lifted him up and placed him gently on the floor making him muddy...i (being the gentle man i am) let go of him and let him get up he started getting all serouse and grabbed me by the throat and starting pushing me against a nearby wall...it wasn't lifethreatening but it was intimedating, i just put my hands to the side of me saying "hey hey calm down" letting him pin me against the way (hes bigger and older then me, more likely to have more experience) he soon lets go and i get congradulated by the "huge chap" that i talked to earlier for having some balls but one of his mates, known as kurt soon comes along after seeing me throwing my wieght around and one guys says "watch out he can bench press 120kg" and he replies with "ill kick you ass boy" with some wierd accent...i knowing him and his reputation reply with "you honestly could mate" he starts pushing me and then starts feeling my chest (im slimish but i still have slight boobs being at 13 1/2 stone) and making the noises of having sexual intercourse with me) i not liking it but not having the guts just laugh until ive had enough and just say back off as he does before threatening and hitting me on both my shoulders and then asking why i dont play rugby which i reply with i do..he says he hasn't seen me and i say the reason why (your find out about it at the end of this paragraph) in the end i was embarressed and made a fool of in front of my gfs best friend but i aslo stuck up for myself against big rugby playes and showed i can take them down but no one will see it that way, to everyone else i wussied out...i feel bad, i feel i cant stick up for myself properly and i dont have the psychological ability to start a fight with them...but in the end, i knew i did the best i could from a martial artists point of view...i spose what im asking is for what i could of done better or if i did do anything right at all and what can i do to help with psycholical defense...i would expect experience to be the best way but plz help...thanks in advance
gazz