The Love Thread

[pgm316]

This is the much waited, long over needed and lowly regarded Lurve thread!

You now have a place to post all those relationship questions burning away in your head, and if nobody can help I’m sure someone will supply a technique the terminate the problem :p Or at least we can have a chuckle at your expense :D (of course not!)

[Tosh]

What does it mean when my gilffriend (black belt TKD), who I live with, randomly attemept to throw axe kicks at me when ever I forget to take the bins out???


---confused from Edinburgh

[pgm316]

It means don't forget to put the bins out! :p

Its when she does some damage you need to put her out instead of the bins ;)

[TkdWarrior]

lol...
i hav no probs... ;)
-TkdWarrior-

[Dragon_Princess]

hhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmm...thinks of questions....

[wayofthedragon]

wow....

princess this wold be a good thread for us to hang out at.

I'm sure we can help a lot of people with there questions after being in a 6 year relation ship i'm sure we should be pretty experienced in these matters:love:

[Dragon_Princess]

*opened for discussion*

***been through 6 years, no ring, no nothing...what do ya guys think of that? good thing of bad? i think of it both ways.

[wayofthedragon]

No nothing.....

hmm. I wouldn't say that....

you know there could be a baby on the way

[Dragon_Princess]

A baby? Do you have someone else pregnant?!!! Meet me in chat.

[wayofthedragon]

you know I'm speaking of you, who else:confused:

Com'n now

[Dragon_Princess]

*am not pregnant mr/and ms. martialartsplaneteers.

[wayofthedragon]

don't know yet....we'll see

now lets leave room for the other posters;)

[YODA]

6 years? Pah! Newbies!

I've been with my Lady for the past 29 years - and I'm only 40 :D

Now THAT is love!

[Saz]

aww :)

I've notched up 3 years, but it feels like 29 sometimes! lol

[TkdWarrior]

"bows to yoda"
u r Da Man. :D
-TkdWarrior-

[Jim]

29 years? You get less than that for murder on good behaviour! ;)

[YODA]

Originally posted by Jim
29 years? You get less than that for murder on good behaviour! ;)


LOL! Well - I did tell her a few years back that if I'd murdered her instead I would be a free man now :D

Seriously though - we met aged 11 & 10 - and I don't regret a day of those 29 years.

[pgm316]

My longest lasted for around 6 months. Theres a lot to be said for short meaningless relationships, a lot of fun and the variety is good. But one day I want something more erm whats the word…. Like Yoda has, he sounds happy enough! ;)

[Spirit Reaper]

even if you dont like yoda, (cant think of anyone who doesn't)

BOW!

this is sort of an old forum.......but i must bow to you yoda for maintaining such relationships.........

*bows* and i must also be jealous........................ok im done.

GOOD JOB YODA!

[morphus]

10 & 11yrs - wow i thought i was young meeting my beloved, we were 14 & 15 yrs we've been together more or less 20 yrs!

Has it been that long?:love:

[booksie_girl]

I'm almost 16, and never been asked out :(

[pgm316]

Booksie_girl, you'll have to change your tactics a little. Maybe hint a little to someone that you'd like to be asked out, or even ask someone yourself.

another reliable option is to hang around places where people meet each other, some bars are better than others, maybe your a little young at 16, but I'm sure you can think of somewhere?

[booksie_girl]

I go to an all girls school, which doesn't provide many opportunities, and it's only since starting TKD at the start of the year that I've had anything to do with guys on a regular basis. Believe me, those guys are very different to the jerks I used to go to primary school with :D. There's no-one in particular I have an eye on, and I'm in no rush. May as well enjoy the freedom while I have it :D. Still, would be nice... :D

[Jack]

booksie girl, you're a lot better off without a relationship... trust me!

I'm 16 myself, (male), me and my girl of 6 months broke up because she decided she suddenly loved her ex (whom she previously broke up with because she liked me) and so left me and was back with him within a day... seriously screwed my head up and had an unhappy time afterwards...

A few months later and I'm fine now, but wow, I wouldn't go out of my way to worry about finding anyone quickly.

"We shouldn't complain about not being loved or understood. We should make an effort to love and understand others."
-Thich Naht Hanh


:)

[kobudo_tob]

It is better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all..........

Thats what people say, and I'm sure Jack can agree with me in saying that isn't always true (if at all :))

[JediMasterChris]

PGM, If I touch a girls butt and she smacks me, does that mean she likes it??? :confused:

[grandmaster mat]

lmao chris, good question, where does she smack you, on the butt aswell?

[JediMasterChris]

I wish....

[Rob_InDaUk]

If that was the case there'd be a lot more smacked butts in the world

Rob

[morphus]

Young love ...........it's a killer in it!:confused:

[Jack]

Originally posted by kobudo_tob
It is better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all..........

Thats what people say, and I'm sure Jack can agree with me in saying that isn't always true (if at all :))

Heh, it does bear some truth, if you make an effort to remember the good times not the bad.

But who can be bothered with that?! :D

[pgm316]

Originally posted by JediMasterChris
PGM, If I touch a girls butt and she smacks me, does that mean she likes it??? :confused:

It does depend where she smacks you :D

Try complimenting her rather than touching........

[JediMasterChris]

That's so crazy, it just might work!!!!

[kobudo_tob]

[quote]Heh, it does bear some truth, if you make an effort to remember the good times not the bad.[quote]

Well thats what you gotta be careful with. When you want to get bak with an Ex - both of you only thing about the good times, forgetting te bad.

[Yin and Yang]

Jedi Master Chris...pgm316 is right...try complimenting. Usually if you smack a girl's butt and she smacks you on the face then nope, sorry, she doesn't like you. Try saying you like her shirt or something... just dont touch her. Watch out she may do Judo and throw you across the room, even if you DO deserve it..
-X

[Rob_InDaUk]

If you say you like her shirt she might think that you were looking at her bussoms! Thats just my take on it..lol

[Jack]

Originally posted by kobudo_tob
[quote]Heh, it does bear some truth, if you make an effort to remember the good times not the bad.[quote]

Well thats what you gotta be careful with. When you want to get bak with an Ex - both of you only thing about the good times, forgetting te bad.

Thats true. I'm too conscious of my own thoughts now though, so if that did happen, halfway through I'd just think "My perception of this girl is an illusion, its tinted by my desire. She isn't really that perfect, infact she caused me a lot of pain. I don't want her."

This has happened before from experience. Gotta love that Zen. :p

[pgm316]

Originally posted by Yin and Yang
Jedi Master Chris...pgm316 is right...try complimenting. Usually if you smack a girl's butt and she smacks you on the face then nope, sorry, she doesn't like you. Try saying you like her shirt or something... just dont touch her. Watch out she may do Judo and throw you across the room, even if you DO deserve it..
-X

Try complimenting her bottom instead of touching it! :D

I did the same thing on behalf of a friend and it worked, I think she was too shocked to be offended :eek:

[booksie_girl]

Comig from a girl, I wouldn't like you touching my bottom, and if I smacked you hard, there would be a reason. I didn't like it and would make sure you remembered the smack next time you went to touch something you weren't supposed to touch. Take pgm's advice, us girls like compliments, not guys trying to touch us way too soon. Although maybe not compliment her on her bottom, compliment her clothes or hair instead.

[Rob_InDaUk]

What if the girl was wearing hot pants..then what do you say? "I like the way those hotpants grip your bottom"
I think you would probably get a slap for that as well!

[Jack]

Nonsense, you'd get a cute blush. Then you can comment on her blush, and she'll blush more. Laugh at her.

Then you'll get a slap, or a phone number. Worth the risk?

Depends on your level of conditioning. :)

[pgm316]

Which is no problem if you've trained in Combat Ki :D

[JediMasterChris]

Wow guys!!! I tried that compliment thing on the pants and it worked!!!!

[teacher]

What the compliment thing worked on the pants? It was supposed to work on the girl. Next bit of advice from an old git ask her to talk about what she likes and listen to her. No I mean it, listen to her, dont just wait till she pauses for breath and then start talking about the stuff you like.

[grandmaster mat]

if u have really hurt a girls feelings and regret it what do u do? do you appoligise (if she will even talk to you) or do u run away and join the forein legion

[pgm316]

Originally posted by JediMasterChris
Wow guys!!! I tried that compliment thing on the pants and it worked!!!!

Glad to help! ;)

A technique I watched on TV a while back that does work, along with a bit of effort, intelligence and good appearance! :D

Is;

C.I.Q. Compliment - Introduction - Question

Like you found out, the compliment gets you on their good side, then introduce so you feel you know each other a little more, then the important bit, the open ended question to get you talking!

Good luck! :)

[Jack]

Originally posted by grandmaster mat
if u have really hurt a girls feelings and regret it what do u do? do you appoligise (if she will even talk to you) or do u run away and join the forein legion

Legion is father. Legion is mother.

:D

[KickChick]

This is the much waited, long over needed and lowly regarded Lurve thread!

You now have a place to post all those relationship questions burning away in your head, and if nobody can help I’m sure someone will supply a technique the terminate the problem :p Or at least we can have a chuckle at your expense :D (of course not!)


Hey why not resurrrect this thread ... February 14th is Valentines Day! :love:

[pgm316]

Hey why not resurrrect this thread ... February 14th is Valentines Day! :love:


Good idea :)

So then what romantic this have you got planned?

[Andy Murray]

The toilet seat....I'm gonna........

.......Which way do they like it again?

Up or down?

[pgm316]

I don't like the idea of valentines day too much, I feel like your expected to do something, whereas doing something another weekend for no reason would mean more....

So we're going away next weekend instead! ;)

[Tireces]

Hey why not resurrrect this thread ... February 14th is Valentines Day! :love:

ah yes, the black day looms on the horizon. Good luck in all your relationships or whatever. I myself know that I'm better off without those things.

[booksie_girl]

shame shame shame!

[pgm316]

ah yes, the black day looms on the horizon. Good luck in all your relationships or whatever. I myself know that I'm better off without those things.

Better so it doesn't interfere with your training :confused:

[Guerilla Fists]

I haven't had the best of luck with love. I met a great girl whom I fell madly in love with for two years and then I moved in with a real idiot who kept nit picking our relationship and telling me how awful she was day in and day out. Kinda came between the two of us since she moved away and we were doing the long distance thing. You know what they say, Amor de lejos, Amor de pendejos. I was a fool to ever listen to him and break up with such a great girl. She tells me I'll always have a place in her heart and she'll love me on some level. But I haven't heard from her since Christmas Eve and she never returns my calls or texts when I try to get a hold of her. I'll try maybe two or three times a month but she just ignores me. I wish there was a way to get her back in my life, just as a friend. It hurts so deeply because I fell so in love with her that I was not only falling for her, but I fell for the person I became when she was in my life.
I rebounded pretty hard. And I need to find myself a really good girl. The religious type that won't let me do anything sexual with her. We might be making out and I'll slip my hand under her skirt or her blouse and she'll say something like, "wh- what are you doing?" then I'll remove it and respond, "nooooothing." I need to find me a good girl like that.
Any suggestions on what to do to repair my relationship with my ex? Any explanations why she is acting this way? I want to emphasize taht I never cheated, belittled, or abused her in anyway, we had a great productive relationship.
Appreciated,
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