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YODA
17-Nov-2002, 03:55 PM
HOW DO YOU LIVE YOUR DASH?

I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning...to the end.
He noted that first came her date of birth and spoke the following date with tears, but he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years. (1934 -1999)
For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth and now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own
The cars...the house...the cash, what matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard...
Are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left, that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
To consider what’s true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect, and more often wear a smile.
Remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy’s being read with your life’s actions to rehash... would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?

Author Unknown

TkdWarrior
23-Nov-2002, 03:19 PM
hmm i missed this thread...some great thoughts...
i remember some of words quoted by Linda Lee on Bruce couple of months before his death he said "if i die today i wouldn't hav any regret"
-TkdWarrior-

YODA
23-Nov-2002, 04:56 PM
Here's another one I like....

A rich man asked a Zen master to write something down that could encourage the prosperity of his family for years to come. It would be something that the family could cherish for generations. On a large piece of paper, the master wrote, "Father dies, son dies, grandson dies."

The rich man became angry when he saw the master's work. "I asked you to write something down that could bring happiness and prosperity to my family. Why do you give me something depressing like this?"

"If your son should die before you," the master answered, "this would bring unbearable grief to your family. If your grandson should die before your son, this also would bring great sorrow. If your family, generation after generation, disappears in the order I have described, it will be the natural course of life. This is true happiness and prosperity."